Travel and sex go hand in hand and there are some easy ways to get laid on your travels. Whether it s a nude street encounter, a bit of casual fun or a relationship you're after, here's a few of my tips. Stay safe by wearing a condom (and this is written from a guy's point of view by the way)
1. Sleep in mixed dorms
Staying in mixed dorms is key - all male dorms are good but you are less likely to sleep in the same room as a girl you know. Chat up the girls in your room, see the city together and have a few drinks. You might be more than just dorm mates by the end of it all!
Advice is - buy her a drink or 2, wear a condom and don't disturb your roommates!
2. Talk to the hostel staff.
Owners of hostels and hostel staff often lead busy lives, indeed some of the receptionists and cleaners have boring, mundane existences. Chat away to them! If a lady comes in to wash the showers, get talking to her, ask her about the city, invite her out. She might also show you around. If she knows you're heading off again the next morning, she might be gagging for it as much as you.
My advice - go out the back of the hostel and get it on ;-)
3. Drink in local bars.
All the sociable people will be in the bars. The local girls will be bored of their normal lives and partners they might just fancy that bit of foreign for the night! Buy them a drink, get chatting, stay interested and get lucky!
My advice - get talking to the locals but try not to reveal too much about yourself!
4. Travel with other backpackers
Going on group tours is a great way to meet people. Doing the Inca Trail here in PERU!
Bonding by day with fellow travellers, bonking by night. Easy!
My advice - get booked on tours with other travellers, get talking to them then drink and ****
5. Red Light Areas!!
Lots of these about and you have to pay for them of course but negotiate a price and get it on if that's what you want. No shame in it given that both parties gain out of it.
What's my advice - this should be a last resort so take care and always put a condom on.
6. Party!
Pub crawls, nights out etc. are a greet way to meet people on your travels. It could be more than a cocktail straw being sucked!
What's my advice - party by all means but also take care of your liver.
7. Stop being fussy!
Stop being so fussy over who you talk to, date and sleep with - plenty of great girls who may not be your original type - you'll be surprised!
Advice - Get to know girls first, don't be fussy or picky, have a laugh with them, flirt away and enjoy yourself!
8. Walk around naked! This could well not be a decent tip, but at least you'll get a laugh and a bit of attention from the others. I've actually done this myself a few times alone and with others, and seen a few others do it. Why be ashamed of your body! Show the girls your assets.
I'm not saying make this a habit but once in a while take your clothes off! How funny is it walking into a hostel toilet to see a dude with his full kit off and the todger wangling about!
Advice - don't by shy about showing your bits to others!
9. Screw your travel mate!
When you travel with a girl and you know each other well - these things happen. You'll already have shared showers, buses, beds and tours. It's about time you became "friends with benefits".
My advice - you might as well get it on with your travel mate - you're friends after all!
10. Go travelling with your other half.
Of course! This is the best and most lovey dovey way to get sex on your travels - you love her, travel with her and sleep with her! This is really the number one way ;-)
What's my advice - care for her, love her and travel with her
1. Sleep in mixed dorms
Staying in mixed dorms is key - all male dorms are good but you are less likely to sleep in the same room as a girl you know. Chat up the girls in your room, see the city together and have a few drinks. You might be more than just dorm mates by the end of it all!
Advice is - buy her a drink or 2, wear a condom and don't disturb your roommates!
2. Talk to the hostel staff.
Owners of hostels and hostel staff often lead busy lives, indeed some of the receptionists and cleaners have boring, mundane existences. Chat away to them! If a lady comes in to wash the showers, get talking to her, ask her about the city, invite her out. She might also show you around. If she knows you're heading off again the next morning, she might be gagging for it as much as you.
My advice - go out the back of the hostel and get it on ;-)
3. Drink in local bars.
All the sociable people will be in the bars. The local girls will be bored of their normal lives and partners they might just fancy that bit of foreign for the night! Buy them a drink, get chatting, stay interested and get lucky!
My advice - get talking to the locals but try not to reveal too much about yourself!
4. Travel with other backpackers
Going on group tours is a great way to meet people. Doing the Inca Trail here in PERU!
Bonding by day with fellow travellers, bonking by night. Easy!
My advice - get booked on tours with other travellers, get talking to them then drink and ****
5. Red Light Areas!!
Lots of these about and you have to pay for them of course but negotiate a price and get it on if that's what you want. No shame in it given that both parties gain out of it.
What's my advice - this should be a last resort so take care and always put a condom on.
6. Party!
Pub crawls, nights out etc. are a greet way to meet people on your travels. It could be more than a cocktail straw being sucked!
What's my advice - party by all means but also take care of your liver.
7. Stop being fussy!
Stop being so fussy over who you talk to, date and sleep with - plenty of great girls who may not be your original type - you'll be surprised!
Advice - Get to know girls first, don't be fussy or picky, have a laugh with them, flirt away and enjoy yourself!
8. Walk around naked! This could well not be a decent tip, but at least you'll get a laugh and a bit of attention from the others. I've actually done this myself a few times alone and with others, and seen a few others do it. Why be ashamed of your body! Show the girls your assets.
I'm not saying make this a habit but once in a while take your clothes off! How funny is it walking into a hostel toilet to see a dude with his full kit off and the todger wangling about!
Advice - don't by shy about showing your bits to others!
9. Screw your travel mate!
When you travel with a girl and you know each other well - these things happen. You'll already have shared showers, buses, beds and tours. It's about time you became "friends with benefits".
My advice - you might as well get it on with your travel mate - you're friends after all!
10. Go travelling with your other half.
Of course! This is the best and most lovey dovey way to get sex on your travels - you love her, travel with her and sleep with her! This is really the number one way ;-)
What's my advice - care for her, love her and travel with her
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