Oh To Love, How Rare That Truly Is

By Evan Sanders


Oh to love, how rare that really is. The things we love in this world last only so long. Yes, it may only be 5 minutes, 5 years, or a complete lifetime, but at the end we eventually part. How lucky we are to have something so fantastic at one time that makes the ending of the journey so hard. But for people that love unconditionally...for those who love with their whole heart and understand that we're all sentenced to an end, we stay present with the people we adore. We make that moment last as long as we will because who really knows when those moments will be no more for us. Our love is the thing that miracles are made of. Our love is the thing that can actually and accurately change the planet . We see people near us all the time fall madly in love with something they really enjoy, and the world changes around them. We see people who fall head over heels in love with a person, and their energy, the two of them together as a unit creates something that other people can honestly see and feel.

Love goes beyond.

Love is a variety of energy that cannot be explained.

Words are no match for it. Even when the best of words are used in the most perfect way, only a scratch is created on really describing what love is. This explains why our hearts literally break when love crashes and burns. Recovery unfortunately appears as distant cousin. We enter into a true state of loss as the person we were with were truly was our other set of eyes, hands and legs.

Our friends, our work, our relations, all can be deeply adored. Not juvenile "love" but I'm talking about the sort of truly deep and incredibly vulnerable love, where you haven't any fear in your mind about telling that person the worst about yourself, the darkest worries you have kept secret, as you know that love transcends all. You give that special someone the tools to absolutely destroy you down to your core, and you trust them with everything inside you not to.

Love nevertheless can be a fleeting thing.

And that's how it is designed to be. As human beings, we try to hold onto the good stuff as long as we are able to, but frequently the good just runs out and the balance of life takes a dip from what we had. We are supposed to be brought down, so we are able to in truth rise again. I have always thought that the one person I really fell completely in love with, my soulmate, wouldn't simply just be the one that would be rising with me, but the one that would support me and even help me walk through those dips in life.

The love that I have felt during the past has been wonderful, life changing, incredible, and yet at all the same time fleeting. Things morph, things change, and as the years have gone by, I have found more methods to appreciate what I had versus what I lost. I think that really has been a major turning point for me. My soul opens like a blooming flower each time I give myself the chance to experience life. The good and the bad. The strength of a strong redwood is built into my core and flowers of expertise, fervour, and wisdom bloom through my soul.

We are designed to experience the events we do on the trails we choose.

Hang onto what you can while you have it and terribly love those around you. Cold and hard hearts are for the feeble. That is fear talking. That's fear trying to protect the one thing you know that could actually make you exposed. Overt and plain-speaking strength isn't strength remotely. It's weakness trying to convince an audience that it's something else.

Honest vulnerability and a light heart is true strength. The journey allows you to confront even your worst nightmares with keenness and vigor.

Love seriously.

Love fervently.

Love vulnerably.

Love with no fear.




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The Depths Of Your Heart

By Evan Sanders


The deepest part of your heart can turn out to be a pretty pure place to go. I once thought it's a place of intense confusion and where the past lived, but I truly have come to find that it's really a place of honest purity.

These thoughts and emotions that I feel inside have been directly claimed by others to be intense and for some reason I have experienced some kind of negativeness with this word. Perhaps it's the way I am taking it? Perhaps it's the way I interpret that word? Nonetheless, I'm starting to begin to find this emotional force about life is really pure simplicity manifesting itself.

I am hooking up and linking into the purity of a few of these feelings that I have never absolutely experienced before. Maybe that's the idea right there - totally experiencing emotions.

When we shut ourselves off from experiencing negative emotions we also shut ourselves off from experiencing the wide range of positive ones also. The deepest part of your heart can be a place that you can go to grasp the truths about yourself instead of a place you've got to be scared of. In this place, there exist lessons of love and enthusiasm. Why would you want to go there?

I think we are scared of this place because we have experienced how wild and intense a number of these emotions we go through are and that shocks the hell out of us. For whatever reason, we are taught to keep a lid on ourselves and not stray too far outside the middle because that's the secure place to play. No, I'd rather climb dangerous trees and travel into unknown lands than play it safe.

That game really isn't for me...the playing it safe game in life.

The midst of your heart can become a place you go to grasp the subtleties and mysteries of this life. There are very many things that we don't understand about what is going on in this world just because we can't see them. Infrequently, you've got to run on faith. You have to be content to put your feet forward, one after the next right into the dense fog and function on that faith. Will it be frightening? You can bet your money on it. Will it be worth it? Oh completely. Time and again you should travel into your heart to find your true self and start to function in a way that is really connected and present with the world. If you can try that, there is no cap on what you may become.

So what will it be today?




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Island Christian Church & 3 Ways To Write Poems

By David Kellan


Poetry is, without question, one of the best ways to convey oneself. Even though this can be said for other methods of writing, there's something about poems that comes across as expressive, not to mention artistic in various senses. However, not everyone will have a strong understanding of what Christian poems should contain. Island Christian Church can help, as these 3 of the best ways to write better poems for the illustration of faith.

One of the best ways to become a better Christian poet is to read. If you are someone who enjoys poetry, chances are that you have at least a couple of artists you consider to be your favorites. What this means is that it'll be in your best interest to look into the works of Walt Whitman and Robert Frost, both of whom are renown Christian poets. The terms that they use may strike you, meaning that you can potentially utilize them in your future works.

What about the variety of literary terms which may be brought into Christian poetry? One of the most common terms, as it relates to poetry, is known as personification. What this does is that it gives inanimate objects human characteristics. It's a common tool in many fields of writing, though it seems like this is especially prevalent in poems. If you are a Christian writer, who has a penchant for this style, it's easy to see why these terms matter.

If you're going to become more proficient in poetry, it's important to recognize how different styles can be incorporated. Given the broad nature of poetry, it's understandable that you'll want to explore different styles and narratives. One Christian poem may refer to a Bible story, while another poem may be spoken from the perspective of a well-known figure in Christianity. These are just a few examples of styles which can be associated with Christian poetry.

Poetry, when written well, can appeal to a number of people. It's easy to understand why so people take to this art form, especially when there are different styles to take in. Of course, Christian poetry is different in certain respects, and must be treated with care. The aforementioned tips will help you, as a writer, better understand what this entails. More importantly, though, it will help you see just how well this form of writing can present faith.




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On Being Very Gentle

By Evan Sanders


Oftentimes we think that we must put up our own resistance against a front that somebody else creates against us. Being a bit combative can be thought of as a slightly sexy...but it's really not. But in reality, there's only one thing that breaks down walls: being gentle.

We live in a harsh world. Thank the heavens there are there significant acts of bravery, fervour, faith and heroism that run through the streams of hate - but the reality is those acts of hate themselves really begin to take a toll on our minds. Our past impedes us from living in the present, turns us into pessimistic beings on occasion and our built view continues our story until we or some other person comes in helping us break out of that cycle. This disbelief about life and humanity can be incredibly hard and damn near impossible to combat. But that is the point.

You aren't meant to fight with or combat it.

You are meant to have a soft touch.

We need more people in this world who are strong enough to be incredibly gentle.

To truly love without condition. To give themselves notwithstanding being ungiven to. To give the world their best, day in and day out without any expectation of return. We need a lot more of those people in this world. As I have discovered and found through this journey, life isn't about expecting a return. The times I have felt myself unhappiest were the instances when I had expectancies for those around me. Shakespeare himself declared, "Expectation is the root of all heartache." He sure appeared to have it right. When we expect other people to do certain things or act certain ways we are going to sometimes be deeply disappointed. Don't expect. You can only control yourself.

Never let anyone else's perspective about life decide your own.

Take into account that everyone is going through something or other. It's really easy to be hard on people. But I know that isn't why I have arrived here. I've been hard on people in the past. But now I'm sure that my only job is to keep to my values and go all through life spreading kindness and light. What people do is none of my business. Sure some of it "happens" to me, but that makes it even more urgent to keep true to what I am doing.

You can't go through life by avoiding having experiences and deep relationships with others. You have to put your heart on the line and learn. The sole way I ever got to this revelation is by trying continually. No matter how badly things go, you have to keep on going. Allow the negatives to make you more bold.

Don't waste time fretting about things that aren't for you. Not many are going to love your brand. If you set a quality standard for yourself - call yourself Hermes - not everyone is likely to want to buy that. Don't fret about the folks that hate on your brand. Continue your journey towards turning into the best person you can possibly be and aim higher and higher. By the day let your goals get larger. Always be competing with your potential.

Remember - be delicate with those around you. Love your heart out. Strength is truly shown in many ways.




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Have The Courage To Walk Away

By Evan Sanders


There's this truly fascinating art in walking away from certain people who don't treat you well, respect you enough to respond to you, or just don't act like you mean much to them. On one hand you would like to be close with as many good people as you can and you reach out attempting to meets new friends. On the other hand you have got this respect for yourself and pride in how you act. The middle ground is hard to find sometimes. It is something that I struggle with again and again. At what point do you hold your head up high and walk away from the relationship?

I hold myself to a pretty high standard. A great deal of the time I find myself not desiring to do something but doing it anyhow because I know the other person deserves that. I'm of the opinion that is what I'd needed if the situation was switched around. But I feel that most of the time people do not do that for me. I don't know if this is just my generation, but it's become increasingly popular for people to just not make a response to you, not take seconds out of their day to recognise effort, and just hide. I don't know what it is. I don't really understand what makes people do this. Is it an absence of respect? Do you simply not like me? Do you just not care?

As I'm going through life, things really have become more intense. I give my heart out to people in a fashion that I haven't ever been capable of before - and I love that I have started to develop that. But at the exact same time I have experienced more and more perspectives that are just the grandest turnoffs I've ever come by. I find that balance between giving people pieces of me, and deciding to walk away. It's hard to let people around you go especially when there isn't any massive blowup of any sort.

It is hard to turn off attempting to bring people joy. Because that's what it really comes down to for me. I try and bring others as much joy as I am able to during the day. I attempt to make others laugh. I attempt to give them a little leg up, some confidence, some spark to their day that might make it all that much better and happier. I don't expect them to do exactly same for me...but I do look for respect, and if if it's really not there, I don't try to convince them...I just move forward and end up leaving.

Finding the balance has been stupendously hard on my heart lately. But in all truth, I know what I must do. I have to walk away. I have to respect myself enough, the type of person I am , and not really settle for something less than I know what I merit. You must know what you are worth. If you do not think you are 100% worth it, you will accept anything. Remember, people only treat you certain ways by what you accept from them.




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Finding 25Th Anniversary Invitations Online

By Ericka Marsh


When inviting guests to a special occasion, the invitation is the first impression they will receive. It has to be chosen carefully to suit the celebratory spirit of the occasion. Fortunately, one is able to go online today and find plenty of inspiration. When ordering 25th anniversary invitations, some suppliers offer more customization than others. Some people know exactly what they want but others need to be able to work together with the supplier to customize their perfect invitation.

Deciding on all the details can be daunting and it helps when support is given at every stage. From the design of the card and printing to the mailing, care has to be taken to ensure accuracy. Turnaround time is another factor to consider as cards need to be sent out well in advance of the event, giving guests time to respond.

From the many samples provided on a site, it is possible to find one that is perfect in every detail. A search can be refined by selecting colors, type of card and number of photographs. A site may also list various styles to choose from such as modern, classic, vintage, retro and indie.

Some samples are simple and others have a more complex format that often includes photographs. A plain card with text in one color can be embellished with motifs and borders. These cards are most affordable and many people like their elegant simplicity. However, others prefer to have full color photographs to enhance the look. This does increase the price and when more than one photograph is included in a folded format, costs can increase quite considerably.

The number of cards required, card stock used and whether the cards are to be mailed by the supplier to the guests also affect the final costs. With all the many options available, everyone is able to find a card to suit their budget. Do not make the mistake of selecting the cheapest option. Sometimes a simpler card is more effective but the extra cost of including photographs may make your invitation extra special and people are more likely to keep it as a memento.

The amount of customization allowed varies. Sometimes all that needs to be changed on a sample is the text. However, you may not be this lucky or may have some creative ideas of your own. Once a sample has been selected, an option of altering elements is made available. Fonts, colors and other design elements can be changed to suit your taste and the theme of an occasion.

Once all the details of text, font, color, and design have been chosen, there are still other decisions that have to be made. The type and size of card must be selected and a specific quantity ordered. A delivery address must be provided and sometimes suppliers offer to mail the cards directly to the guests.

When it comes to price, it is better to lay out a little more to receive excellent support and service. You will receive a well designed and printed invitation in time to send it to all your guests. You will be proud of what you are sending them and they will be excited to receive it.




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The Art Of Surrealism

By Emily Sigidson


We were first introduced to Surrealism in the 1920's, when it was first brought about to expand the human mind. It is not biased to the form it takes as it has been seen in art, film, sculpture, etc. Most often, these types of work will offer an element of surprise. This is usually displayed through a random character or landscape that presents some form of unusualness.

It was sparked from a time known as the Dada movement. Surrealists' main goal was to introduce new visions and inspire an alternate reality. Sigmund Freud is known for his groundbreaking work and his ability to truly expand upon this type of art.

Andre Breton (a Dadaist) did a wonderful job of explaining this new form of art in his book, "Surrealist Manifesto." His main goal was to assist with the greater understanding of what surreal art was really creating. His words describe the art as a way to merge a dream and realistic state into one combined state.

Salvador Dali is possibly the artist most often thought of when it comes to surrealism. In his work, "The First Days of Spring," we are introduced to a somewhat ominous dream with fascinating characters and even a headless human.

It is important for people to understand that Surrealism was very much at a global level. It was practiced by artists in different cultures and places including: Mexico, Europe, United States and South America. The idea that the human mind was capable of expanding and envision alternate realities was its key focus.

These words only touch on the vast world of Surrealism. This wonderful ideal is still a popular art form today. It continues to test the abilities of the human mind and make way for a higher level of thinking. It is truly an incredible phenomenon when artwork allows us to escape from our everyday view of reality and channel an alternative state of mind.




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An Amazing Woman WIll Be Your Oracle

By Evan Sanders


If you are lucky enough to have a woman in your life that tests you, believes in you, who challenges you, who respects you, who trusts your judgement and who knows that you're their rock, she has got to be treated exactly like a treasure. If you would like to go somewhere in life, build something with someone, improve yourself or become something great, you have to find someone you can walk 100% side by side with, not one step in front of one step behind. You have to find your best friend and confidant and you can do anything together. If you find that person who you can truly love, who you can pour everything out to and trust, you have got something special. Because truthfully, these girls don't come around fairly often, but when they do, you must be completely ready for them. You have to be ready to be the best man you can possibly be. But that's nothing in comparison to who you are going to become.

A lady will believe in you, be solid by your side when you are in the depths of hell, love you despite any uncertainty and doubt you'll have, will stand with you when you really need support in your life and help you dream larger than you ever possibly could have. A woman will worship you in many ways you never imagined you could be loved. A woman will test you consistently, checking your foundation. This isn't to drive you mad, but if she knows what you are constructed from and can really feel the iron running through your veins, she is going to have complete devout faith that you are headed in the best direction. A woman will let you scramble into the woods to go searching for answers you might need.

She is going to understand that when you get quiet, you aren't withdrawing, but checking in, searching your consciousness for what is truly real and right. A real woman will trust you, only if she feels you. No logical reason will ever cure the pain in her heart if she can't feel that you really care, that you love her, you are there regardless of everything else. She is going to push you away, and if you let down, you've failed the test. A woman will make you into the sort of man that might stand strongly in front of the world naked and exposed, prepared to be judged.

She's going to help you build yourself into something of fantastic courage, strength, and wisdom.

A lady will do all these amazing things and more. But most of all, she will be your joy and awaken something inside of you that you've never felt before. So if you find yourself a great woman, treat her like a treasure. Because she is. She is absolutely life itself, and with her, anything is possible.




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Use These Unique Tips To Plan Your Wedding

By Meagan Smith


Weddings require months of planning to go smoothly. The closer the date becomes the more hectic life can get. Planning helps to avert some of that stress. Here are some suggestions to help you in your planning efforts.

When planning your wedding, think about what type of alcohol serving you want, and what type will be the most cost efficient. If there is one thing people like more than alcohol, it is free alcohol, and an open bar can quickly become a huge expense, especially the longer it remains open. Ask the venue you've chosen for the reception which options they have available to you, and what the cost would be for each.

If you want to save big bucks then talk to a friend or family member that has a large property that can be used for the ceremony. Of course just be sure that you hire someone for the cleaning afterwards. There's also a variety of food you can serve outside of just steaks and chicken. Don't go too fancy for the reception consider ethnic foods that are great tasting and don't break your budget.

Getting married soon? Don't even think about crash dieting to fit into your dress. Starving yourself will just dehydrate you and make you feel sick. Of course, you would not want to pass out as you are saying your vows. If weight is a concern or you are having a tough time with the dress, simply have it let out a hair to accentuate your body more comfortably.

Our last piece of advice is don't get obsessed with the details of the wedding and that everything has to be perfect. Don't let money or anyone ruin the important part of your wedding which is actually marrying that special person. That should be the most important thing, everything else is not necessary.




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What To Consider Before Engaging Divorces Attorney Marietta

By Ericka Marsh


It is very painful when your marriage relationship descends into a state of divorce. Besides the emotions involved, you face major complexities. Such issues mean you need to hire various experts to help you sort them. The legal issues of these complexities mean you need to hire a specialist divorces attorney Marietta practicing particularly. The attorney will handle the consequences, show you how things work during an annulment and smooth out the ugly matters arising.

Before hiring an attorney for marriage breakup proceedings, certain considerations are necessary. These are irrespective of whether the separation is complex involving financial disputes, child custody or a non-litigious amicable divorce. A good attorney will offer a party the proper legal knowledge combined with understanding and compassion. The attorney will learn about the client, help them set realistic targets for their split-up and assist them achieve such goals for them and their family.

An expert attorney will bring wide divorce and law on family experience. Such experience covers all the legal Marietta City fraternity, including the courts, opposing counsels and judges. Your lawyer will have intimate information regarding expectations, the system and the players likely to be involved. This firm shall be specialists when it comes to marriage annulment and family law. This means you will be working with a specialist for your unique needs.

Any client will have at their disposal a team working at a case. While the client will work with one particular attorney, they will be benefiting from the entire firm skills and knowledge. Such a firm has its lawyers regularly sharing information and learning from each other constantly. This knowledge and expertise finally focuses on a clients individual case.

A lawyer shall be dedicated to you and your file who will be responsive and available always. This lawyer will always answer your calls. Every time you call, you have an assurance you will speak to a real person. The good lawyers do not have automated voices responding to your calls.

One size does not usually fit all. A good lawyer will have creative legal solutions in their bag of tricks. They will have expertise in non-litigious alternatives. These include mediation and collaborative law, which may help lower stress and legal costs while still settling the divorce. The lawyer will have true, tried and sound strategies. Negotiation and creative solutions may work early in the process. However, they would be ready for a complex and hard-hitting litigious process if necessary.

Your lawyer will address a number of financial matters within the proceedings. Examples are property dividing and distributing. An equitable division of your marital debts and assets is another. So is division of enterprise assets and determination of their true value. Other examples are division of your personal property, bonds, pensions, stocks, retirement accounts and 401K plans.

A proficient law firm will handle split-up settlement related issues for their clients. These include alimony, their appeals and modification. Spousal support and maintenance is another. Child custody including visitation is another thorny matter settled. Child support enforcement and after judgement modifications is another issue handled. Finally comes advice regarding enforcement of divorce judgement and the requisite contempt actions on failure to comply.




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