Has another guy stolen your girlfriend? Has your girlfriend left you for someone else and you're feeling pretty poor about your chances of winning her back. Maybe he has more money than you, dresses better than you, acts cooler than you or is more handsome than you. None of this matters though and you need to know that in your heart.
While you might think that most women go after the handsome, rich guys, the truth is often something completely different. What most women find attractive is a guy that can make them feel those romantic feelings that every women wants to feel. This doesn't take money, a handsome face or a muscular body. This takes being a little creative as well as being genuine. This means being yourself.
In the wake of your breakup there's a very good chance that you haven't been acting normal. You could feel her slipping away from you before the breakup. You did everything that you could to save the relationship. After the breakup, you became frantic to possess her and bring her back. As a result, you haven't been acting like yourself. You became so focused on your girlfriend and making her love you that you became needy. You desperately wanted her to love you. You needed her to love you. A woman can sense these emotions and feelings and they are very unattractive, to say the least.
While you were doing everything in your power to make your girlfriend love you, this other guy was her refuge. While you were basically pushing her away with your behavior, the other man was there by her side listening to her and agreeing with whatever she had to say. It was easy for him. He probably didn't have to try at all to win her over. He became her best friend, her confidante and the one that she felt understood her better than anyone else in the world. He created a connection with her.
You can create that same kind of connection. You had that connection with her at one time. Sure, things went a little sideways in your relationship and it's quite possible that at this point she isn't talking with you but all that can change. You can turn things around and get that second chance. You can move her emotionally and help her to come to the conclusion all on her own that you're the best thing that ever happened to her. You can show her that you're a great guy, her best friend in the world and the one that truly makes her happy.
Now is the time for you to do the prep work that is necessary for you to win her back. It's time for you to rebuild your life and get your self-confidence back. That other guy doesn't exist and he's not important to your plans. Your girlfriend loved you above all others at one point. It's your goal to rebuild that connection and the only thing standing in your way is your doubt. Banish all doubt and be that man that she fell in love with. Understand her and let her come to you. Forget about your needs and fulfill her needs for a man that is strong and caring. Soon you will have that opportunity to connect with her again so you want to be fully prepared to support her, love her and laugh with her again.
While you might think that most women go after the handsome, rich guys, the truth is often something completely different. What most women find attractive is a guy that can make them feel those romantic feelings that every women wants to feel. This doesn't take money, a handsome face or a muscular body. This takes being a little creative as well as being genuine. This means being yourself.
In the wake of your breakup there's a very good chance that you haven't been acting normal. You could feel her slipping away from you before the breakup. You did everything that you could to save the relationship. After the breakup, you became frantic to possess her and bring her back. As a result, you haven't been acting like yourself. You became so focused on your girlfriend and making her love you that you became needy. You desperately wanted her to love you. You needed her to love you. A woman can sense these emotions and feelings and they are very unattractive, to say the least.
While you were doing everything in your power to make your girlfriend love you, this other guy was her refuge. While you were basically pushing her away with your behavior, the other man was there by her side listening to her and agreeing with whatever she had to say. It was easy for him. He probably didn't have to try at all to win her over. He became her best friend, her confidante and the one that she felt understood her better than anyone else in the world. He created a connection with her.
You can create that same kind of connection. You had that connection with her at one time. Sure, things went a little sideways in your relationship and it's quite possible that at this point she isn't talking with you but all that can change. You can turn things around and get that second chance. You can move her emotionally and help her to come to the conclusion all on her own that you're the best thing that ever happened to her. You can show her that you're a great guy, her best friend in the world and the one that truly makes her happy.
Now is the time for you to do the prep work that is necessary for you to win her back. It's time for you to rebuild your life and get your self-confidence back. That other guy doesn't exist and he's not important to your plans. Your girlfriend loved you above all others at one point. It's your goal to rebuild that connection and the only thing standing in your way is your doubt. Banish all doubt and be that man that she fell in love with. Understand her and let her come to you. Forget about your needs and fulfill her needs for a man that is strong and caring. Soon you will have that opportunity to connect with her again so you want to be fully prepared to support her, love her and laugh with her again.
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Learn more about female psychology from Matt Huston. Discover why your girlfriend might need you to take the lead in your relationship.
