When you first start dating a girl that you really like, things can sometimes become more stressful than you may have bargained for. While you might be enjoying yourself getting to know her, the stress that you might be placing on yourself to do everything perfectly can become a problem. You doubt and worry that things are going to turn out well. You carefully weigh every word before speaking. You question everything that you do. You want everything to be perfect. When will this madness end and what can you do to ensure the success of this relationship?
First, you need to relax. She knows that you like her and if she's not absolutely positive about where you stand then this is actually a good thing. Driving her a little crazy should be part of your whole plan. Women will give up on or reject a guy that they feel is too into them. While most women will tell you that they refuse to chase a guy, making sure that you don't appear over eager and allowing her to take a few steps towards you is important. After all, none of us appreciates things that are too easy to obtain and wearing your heart on your sleeve will just make you appear needy and being needy is a big turn off for all women.
Secondly, try to be yourself as much as possible. Don't lie or tell her things to try to impress her. Keep the focus on her. This is the getting to know you phase so get to know her. What do you want to know about her? Spend some time thinking about this instead of worrying about when you're supposed to kiss her of if she wants you to kiss her. Everybody loves to talk about themselves so the more interest you show in her the more she is going to like you. And when that moment comes to kiss her, you're going to know.
Acting nervous or worrying about things can ruin even the best laid plans. Avoid being nervous at all cost. It sends a message to a woman that you are weak or that something is wrong. She won't feel safe with you. When you feel inadequate or nervous around her, take a few moments to gather your thoughts. Escape to the bathroom after excusing yourself. Duck out and pretend that you're trying to find something in your car or otherwise find five minutes alone to pull yourself together. Remind yourself that she already likes you. If she didn't, she wouldn't be spending time with you. Don't blow it now after you have already overcome two of the three hurdles in making her want you completely. You have attracted her and created a strong bond with her. This is the time for you to really shine and not your opportunity to fall apart. You are the man.
When you find a girl that you really like, getting into a relationship with her is a lot easier than you think. Try not to complicate this and enjoy the dance. This is the truly fun part of the relationship and it's not the destination that you should be focusing on. It's the journey that will make having her in your life so enjoyable for both of you.
First, you need to relax. She knows that you like her and if she's not absolutely positive about where you stand then this is actually a good thing. Driving her a little crazy should be part of your whole plan. Women will give up on or reject a guy that they feel is too into them. While most women will tell you that they refuse to chase a guy, making sure that you don't appear over eager and allowing her to take a few steps towards you is important. After all, none of us appreciates things that are too easy to obtain and wearing your heart on your sleeve will just make you appear needy and being needy is a big turn off for all women.
Secondly, try to be yourself as much as possible. Don't lie or tell her things to try to impress her. Keep the focus on her. This is the getting to know you phase so get to know her. What do you want to know about her? Spend some time thinking about this instead of worrying about when you're supposed to kiss her of if she wants you to kiss her. Everybody loves to talk about themselves so the more interest you show in her the more she is going to like you. And when that moment comes to kiss her, you're going to know.
Acting nervous or worrying about things can ruin even the best laid plans. Avoid being nervous at all cost. It sends a message to a woman that you are weak or that something is wrong. She won't feel safe with you. When you feel inadequate or nervous around her, take a few moments to gather your thoughts. Escape to the bathroom after excusing yourself. Duck out and pretend that you're trying to find something in your car or otherwise find five minutes alone to pull yourself together. Remind yourself that she already likes you. If she didn't, she wouldn't be spending time with you. Don't blow it now after you have already overcome two of the three hurdles in making her want you completely. You have attracted her and created a strong bond with her. This is the time for you to really shine and not your opportunity to fall apart. You are the man.
When you find a girl that you really like, getting into a relationship with her is a lot easier than you think. Try not to complicate this and enjoy the dance. This is the truly fun part of the relationship and it's not the destination that you should be focusing on. It's the journey that will make having her in your life so enjoyable for both of you.
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