Dealing With Domestic Violence

By Norbert Higensen


You may know someone in an abusive relationship or you may be in one yourself. Many times these relationships are with those who have become very close to you in some way or another. When you find yourself in a relationship that is abusive or when you find someone else that needs help, here are some tips to keep them safe.

Leave

Most of us experience lives full of mostly good and fulfilling relationships that improve our lives and make us more able to face the difficulties that come our way. However, there are some who end up in relationships that are unhealthy, and even unsafe.

Have a plan

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Because of the difficulties victims of abuse experience in leaving their abusers, it is extremely important that their friends and relatives be paying attention. Sometimes an individual who is being abused will find it difficult to admit the abuse is occurring. So watching for warning signs of abuse is an important part of every relationship.

Have confidence

The major reason that many people stay in abusive relationships is because they just don't have the confidence to make it out in the world on their own. The fear of leaving is much stronger than the fear of being physically abused in cases like these. Sometimes this is because there are children in the picture. When you look at children and their safety, it takes a responsible parent to ensure that they are safe. When one of those entities is compromised, it is up to the second entity to take on the responsibility. This is the way that things are seen in a court of law as well. When you know that the person you are with is abusive and you choose not to leave, there can be some very serious legal consequences.

In an abusive marriage, these difficulties can be even greater, so in these situations, it is important to find a qualified divorce lawyer, or wherever you may be. And if there are children involved, it is even more important to find a custody attorney as well.

When you finally make the decision you will be glad you did. It is a surprisingly free and empowering world for those who leave such relationships. Make sure that you are ready for what comes with all of your relationships.




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