Ladies Need To Learn How To Keep Your Husband Happy

By Nita McKinney


Nowadays, there are many things to think about before you get married. A marriage is a matter of two people keeping one another happy. This is as much the woman's responsibility to how to keep your husband happy, as it is the man's to the woman.

Generally, it is the expected norm that the woman will do whatever it takes to make the man happy all the time. The thing is, that men have very different viewpoints when it comes to life. They are not nearly as emotional as women and in some cases can seem a little too hard.

For thousands of years, men have dominated the world in many spheres of life and only of late have the females begun to feature as important parts in everyday life. In the past, wives did not even work. They spent their day at home cleaning the house and looking after the kids. It was the norm for the man to go out and work to support his family.

These days it is more acceptable that the woman also works to bring in an extra income for the family to live comfortably. Although they still have the job of keeping the man happy most of the time, it is generally accepted that both partners do their part. Unfortunately, it is still very obvious that the women are more expected to do the giving while the male is the taker.

When there is love and respect in a relationship, there should not be expectations or demands. Usually when two people love each other, they will do things for one another in order to please the other partner. This is usual behavior of a couple who love and respect each other.

The husband is going to want to be treated like his father was treated by his mother as this is the way he has grown up. This is why it is a great idea for the woman to see how the mother treated his father before she weds the man. There is always a chance that things will be different for the man should the wife not want to treat him the same as his mother did his father.

The thing is, when it comes to marriage, is that when you love someone, you will do anything to make the other person happy. This is the person's way to express their feelings for the other person. Unfortunately this is very often a problem in that it eventually becomes an expected way of life and if for some reason the other person stops treating the other with ultimate spoiling, they soon become disgruntled.

The idea when it comes to being married is that the couple understands that they will set their own norms and values with their own family. They will have to decide what makes each other satisfied and do these things in order to bring happiness to the other partner. It is important to understand that it is up to each other to make the relationship a great one, so learning how to keep your husband happy will really pay off.




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