Love The Man

By Evan Sanders


He's not going to be perfect. Actually he might be totally different than you presumed he would ever be. He's going to screw up, fail repeatedly, and lose himself once in a while. He will be in doubt, insecure occasionally and let you down. His fluidity at times when the sea roars will baffle you. His silence when life rips the rug out from him will make you wonder where he went. Did he leave? Did he drift away into some faraway land? He can, occasionally, disappear into his hate, frustration, and nervousness. He'll suffer and wrench deep within his soul. He's going to need to leave for a bit, going off on his very own journey to answer questions only tranquility will truly provide him with. He is going to have times where he's crack in front of you, cry even, and lose the strength he had because he has been strong in the world too long. He will go back and forth in his important decisions on occasion and you'll wonder if he can ever make them. He'll do all of these things and a lot more.

But when you have a man, a real man, his compass will always come back true.

If you love the man, he will be your mountain, the unmovable rock in your life whenever you need him. He will be your greatest fan, no matter the circumstance or situation, he'll be there for you in any possible way he can. If you truly love the real man he will stand in light of your chaos, waves crashing about him, and no matter how much the blackness of your emotions seem to test him, he will always stand strong. If you love the man, he will push you to dream and help you to see the grand picture. He will be able to bring something out in you that you never thought you could have in your life. If you adore the man, he is going to help you bloom and moment by moment, bring you out of your darkest moods into open love. If you adore the man he's going to be your equal, understanding that together you can be more than you could ever be apart. If you adore the man he will love you as much as he adores life itself, deep inside knowing that you are his joy and he's your light.

He's going to want to be your hero, your companion, the king to the queen you are. If you really love the man you may waken grand passions from him, the deepest feelings he can muster and he will share them with you because somewhere deep down in his heart he really does trust you.

When you have a man in your life, he'll be certain inside all of this uncertainty. He's going to disappear to find his answers and come back to you again and again. He will be able to writhe with his calls and then make them, moving forward with conviction and bring you along the ride for the greatest adventures of your life. He'll feel his insecurity and doubt, and bring out a confidence that will settle your heart. If you love the real man, he's going to look at you and not have to say anything, because he is able to feel into you and already knows what your heart desires. If you care for the man, he's going to do anything for you. He will cross oceans for you. He will move mountains for you. It certainly may not appear like you thought it would, but if you really love the man in him, he will bring a love out in you that may light your soul on fire, and together, you can change the world.




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