Culture Influence On Arab Dating

By Rebecca Bell


Many people develop a certain emotion to an opposite gender. Due to that people want to spend time together. When people get to this stage they create a strong bond. This bond usually leads to a relationship. Custom plays a big part on Arab dating.

Religion is a big part of their character and traditions. Being Muslims they follow religious teaching seriously. This makes sure that any interaction between female and male is of reserved nature. This helps in making them stay away from adultery and other actions that are against their beliefs.

Females and makes are only allowed to have relations when they want to get committed to it. If they are serious a wedding is usually thought of. Before a wedding parents must be introduced to their future in laws. This is done so as to acquire blessings from parents. At times some parents dislike a future in law. In such an instance they must give reasons some reasons. Many reasons given are usually about religion and morals.

When parents have no issues they bless that union. Sometimes they fail to bless them . That ends to a bad marriage life according to their beliefs. That union ends up failing . In extreme cases people may divorce . Many people when denied blessings they do not marry. Those that are blessed start planning for a wedding immediately.

Wedding in these community are done in an Islamic way . This means the ceremony will take three days and no music will be used. Two days are for advice and other things like finalizing bride prize. One main thing is that advice is given to them by Imams an USTADH. This is just to psych them as they take a new step in life. This is usually done inside a MASJID but different room . Ladies in one room and male in another room.

Islam encourages simplicity and humbleness. These are why such ceremonies are made small and facilitated in a cheap way. Other rules of Islam apply in this occasions . Music is not used and people must dressing n Islamic way. All that is done because marriage is a holly institution and weddings are service of worship.

Marriage is adored by many people . Everybody in these culture dreams of marrying. This is why people do not build such kind of relationships before marriage. If a girl is involved in such a relationship she might lose her virginity before marriage. When that happens she is likely to miss someone who can marry her.

Mainly people who engage in sex before marriage get punished. This also happens to rapist and partners who cheat. They are stoned to death if four people confess against them as witnesses. Such punishment acts as an example to other people. That is why people respect relationships and treasure their partners. Many people also respect each others partner.




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