The Strict Guidelines Of Halal Dating

By Anthony Kelly


Dating is a stage where couple will engage in romantic relationships or the stage of getting themselves knows each other better. Both people will meet socially with the aim of getting or assessing each other suitability as a partner to be in an intimate relationship or possibly ending up in a marriage. This is a form of courtship where is consist of social activities done by both parties. They will explore each wants and needs. Islamic communities have valued Halal dating as a means where the couples will avoid getting intimate until they get married.

There are many ways on how to improve yourself and how to look good during dating. It can be very difficult to strike good impressions towards the other gender. Setting up yourself for a success is necessary. Define your expectations and what you require from the opposite gender is the first thing. Evaluating your motives and what outcome do you want to have.

By taking care of how you will look, the opposite gender will have an appreciation. For guys, they must keep their hair clean and what type of hairstyle to use. Preparing yourself by having a clear skin by shaving and keeping the breath fresh for kissing. For girls, they have lots of things to consider like make up, accessories, clothing and other beauty secrets.

In the Islam community, when both people have already found that they are perfect for each other, they can continue to the next level. It is called Khitbah in Muslim. The man has to come to the woman house and ask permission from their parents. This way, they can discuss about the marriage.

When a person wants to have a girlfriend or a boyfriend, they must do research first. There are many dating sites where an individual can choose the right person to date with. Websites nowadays have dating sites where a person will post their biography in their personal information. This would become beneficial because each individual can see what a person wants and what they require from the other species.

When a person is asking for someone to be on a date with them, they can select from many kinds of approach that will entice others. They can become aggressive, romantic or even sincere. Each one has a different trait and style. However, it is up to them on how to make their move. It is highly recommended to be just yourself when doing this.

In Islam, before a believer can marry someone, both parties must know and generalize and emphasize both their feelings. The requirement is that they are not allowed to do intercourse unless they are married. They must go out together with their friends and family members.

Limitation is part in Islam community. They will have to follow the strict laws that involves with relationships. They are only given at least three months to be dating and if it works, they have to get married. If not, they have to be separated.

Make sure that you stay interested and interesting at the same time. Never boast of what your achievements and credentials are. Just simply tell them what your likes are and what enjoys you the most.




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