5 Secrets To Successful Dating When You Meet Muslim Singles

By Andrew Kennedy


Dating and courtship in Islam is a heavily guarded activity. Rules have been set where two Muslims are involved and where a discordant couple is involved. When you meet Muslim singles, the success of your relationship depends on how you act and react. The rules set by the community and religion apply whether you have found your date online or offline.

The manner of approach must be right. Ladies will judge your character from the first action to words and activities you engage. This scrutiny will apply whether you are chatting online or have met at a restaurant. It is easier to follow the rules away from the glare of a conservative community. However, you must maintain the decorum because the girl will be scrutinizing every action you take.

Approach each girl in her unique way. Religious affiliation is not justification to treat each girl in the same way. Each lady desires to be handled with respect. This is based on her experiences and personality. You need to take time and study your girl of interest. When you apply the same formula on different ladies, the outcome will be disastrous. You will miss the essence of individuality and your target girl in the process.

Women still value the traditional mode of dating and social arrangement. Men still have to approach women. Dating is still driven by the man. Further, you are required to be extremely respectful. Because of this approach, women remain very loyal to their spouses and husbands. They want to advance a relationship only when it leads to marriage and is long term. They are looking for social acceptance and the family support that comes with relationships.

Women in Islam are highly sexual. Surprise! Surprise! This is a well-kept secret within the Islamic community. They endeavor to give you the best sexual experience. They will please you as a man with everything you would desire in a man. However, this is only restricted to marriage context. The restrictions are tougher in conservative Islamic communities.

The lady will give you a cue of what she wants. Though books have given their opinions, each lady has own fantasies and desires. There are women who are liberal in their approach to dating. Others will be guided by prevailing cultural norms. Watch her moves and hints carefully to enable you make the best choices.

Online dating for Muslims is not any different from dating in real life. Dating websites are keen on enforcing the rules strictly. You need to keep conversations decent. Do not include pictures that run out of the set rails. Ensure that you send the right signal and show readiness to keep things within the limits proscribed.

Muslim women also want to enjoy the fascination of dating like everyone else in the society. They are very appreciative when you treat them right and will always pay you back. The direction of your relationship will always depend on steps you take and how unique they are.




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