About A Jewish And Interfaith Rabbi

By Angela White


Many may talk one out of having an interfaith union but many find themselves unable to do so because of the love felt for their partners. A Jewish and interfaith Rabbi understands the problems that may arise from a marriage of this sort and is there to guide the couple from the start and more importantly how to have a wedding they both will enjoy. There is much to know and there is no place other than starting on the Internet and searching up answers to questions unanswered.

One may find that learning about the laws, customs and practices is a little overwhelming so it is best to keep things simple and get to know the basics. For one, knowing which foods are permissible by Jews to be consumed is a life long study should one feel that one wants to delve deeper into this. For some knowing the basics is enough and that is okay especially when inviting Jews who are friends and family to the occasion itself.

There is reason to the customs practiced such as the groom stamping and breaking a glass after the prayers have come to an end. This is done in remembrance of both temples that were destroyed many years ago. It is to say that life is fragile and love too and that every waking moment each partner should focus on the other and enjoy their lives together.

Firstly, only certain types of foods may be eaten for example animals that have a cloven hoof and chew the cud. This equates to only eating goats, sheep and cattle if one wants to prepare a meat meal. Seafood is a definite no and only fish that have scales and fins may be eaten.

This is what can be eaten and also bearing in mind that meat and milk products may not be consumed at the same time. A religious Jew or Jewess must wait six hours after having eaten meat before milk products may be consumed. It is best to discuss this with a caterer who is in the know with regard to these rules and can suggest variations of a meal with the client.

It is a special time and a time that will be remembered for the rest of their living days. One wants to make it special and it is a good idea to clue up on Jewish practices so as not to be at a complete loss. A Rabbi is the best place to start and setting up an appointment is not that difficult having the Internet today.

It is best to allow oneself some time. Getting started on a search for an interfaith Rabbi should be done months in advance. Some may suggest some possibilities and it is a worthwhile following each lead.

It is best to take time in making decisions. Give oneself as much time as possible. It will be the best day of a lifetime and is there to be enjoyed to the utmost.




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