Many guys flirt a lot and for all sorts of reasons. However, some tend to go too far with the flirting. This then turns out to be a turn off towards the girls which might cost him. At the end of the day, they may live dateless for longer than they have to. In that case, there are various tips that one can learn from when it comes to flirting.
Communication
Communication is vital when it comes to flirting. Communication not only passes a message from you to a girl, but it also portrays what kind of a person you are. In most cases though, communication is only perceived as merely speaking by many guys. Because of this, many guys just talk and talk, while girls get bored and run away. In some cases, guys just keep quiet and listen, and girls run away. On the other hand, quiet guys portray a negative image towards the girl as being boring.
You need to take communication to be all the things you do around that girl. This will make them believe that you are interested in them. What you do or act matters when you are around her. On the same note, you should listen keenly and respond appropriately. If you cannot listen keenly, chances are you will respond wrongly and this will chase away girls. This will make her see that you are a good listener.
Maintain proper grooming
No girl likes a man who doesn't care about the way he dresses, presents himself or even appears. Properly dressed men are a favorite to most girls. In that case, you should ensure that you carry out the simple routine grooming techniques on yourself. They include among them attending to your hair and beards, maintaining confidence in your walk and presentation to her. Do not allow yourself to have a lot of solvable problems such as color crashing, bad hair and breath and other things like that. No girl will approach you if you do not know how to dress properly. In addition, when you have done things right, you gain a lot of confidence because there is nothing wrong with you, and more importantly, you feel that there is nothing wrong. Failure to which, you will drive her away.
Pleasant
Being pleasant is another key component of your strategy to flirt with a girl. This means that you will be able to talk to her in a manner that she feels comfortable being around you. You should, for instance, smile a lot, talk to your girl in a friendly manner and do not always speak negatively on the statement being made by the girl beside you. This though does not imply that you should not be sincere. It only means that you should be open-minded even as you disagree or agree with what one is saying.
Caring and Playful
Being a gentleman towards a girl is another trick in making her become interested in you. This means that girls need someone who can listen and always willing to help out. Although that girl will not tell you, she will expect you do to something caring. Covering a girl with your jacket on a cold day is a sign that you care for her. If she turns it down, you should insist it although not to annoying levels. Such small caring acts are what contribute to your success with women. When you act that way, a girl will view you as a good person, unselfish and ready to help if anything bad happens to her.
The above are some of the flirting tips for shy guys that are helpful in attracting a girl. Remember that being able to attract a girl lies purely on your actions. Because of this, you should do your best to master the above tips and put them into practice.
Communication
Communication is vital when it comes to flirting. Communication not only passes a message from you to a girl, but it also portrays what kind of a person you are. In most cases though, communication is only perceived as merely speaking by many guys. Because of this, many guys just talk and talk, while girls get bored and run away. In some cases, guys just keep quiet and listen, and girls run away. On the other hand, quiet guys portray a negative image towards the girl as being boring.
You need to take communication to be all the things you do around that girl. This will make them believe that you are interested in them. What you do or act matters when you are around her. On the same note, you should listen keenly and respond appropriately. If you cannot listen keenly, chances are you will respond wrongly and this will chase away girls. This will make her see that you are a good listener.
Maintain proper grooming
No girl likes a man who doesn't care about the way he dresses, presents himself or even appears. Properly dressed men are a favorite to most girls. In that case, you should ensure that you carry out the simple routine grooming techniques on yourself. They include among them attending to your hair and beards, maintaining confidence in your walk and presentation to her. Do not allow yourself to have a lot of solvable problems such as color crashing, bad hair and breath and other things like that. No girl will approach you if you do not know how to dress properly. In addition, when you have done things right, you gain a lot of confidence because there is nothing wrong with you, and more importantly, you feel that there is nothing wrong. Failure to which, you will drive her away.
Pleasant
Being pleasant is another key component of your strategy to flirt with a girl. This means that you will be able to talk to her in a manner that she feels comfortable being around you. You should, for instance, smile a lot, talk to your girl in a friendly manner and do not always speak negatively on the statement being made by the girl beside you. This though does not imply that you should not be sincere. It only means that you should be open-minded even as you disagree or agree with what one is saying.
Caring and Playful
Being a gentleman towards a girl is another trick in making her become interested in you. This means that girls need someone who can listen and always willing to help out. Although that girl will not tell you, she will expect you do to something caring. Covering a girl with your jacket on a cold day is a sign that you care for her. If she turns it down, you should insist it although not to annoying levels. Such small caring acts are what contribute to your success with women. When you act that way, a girl will view you as a good person, unselfish and ready to help if anything bad happens to her.
The above are some of the flirting tips for shy guys that are helpful in attracting a girl. Remember that being able to attract a girl lies purely on your actions. Because of this, you should do your best to master the above tips and put them into practice.
About the Author:
Do you want to know how to flirt successfully even if you are shy? Leonard Calvin is a dating expert who specializes in helping men learn how to approach a girl you like. You can visit his website at How to Attract a Girl Tips and get a 30 Seconds Seduction Secrets mini-course for FREE!
