Is there a guy that you're interested in but you're not sure if he is attracted to you? You're just not sure. He seems to like you but how do you know for sure? Is he just being pleasant or do you have a chance with that guy of your dreams? How do you know if a guy likes you and what are some of the signs that he wants to date you?
While it might easier if men would just come right out and tell you how they feel about you, where's the challenge in that? Dating and romance is a dance and even though you might feel like you're going crazy, this is the thrill of falling in love. Real men typically won't come right out and tell you that they're falling for you. Men are taught by society at a very young age that they should bury their feelings and keep their emotions inside. Although this might make things difficult for you, there are some signs that a guy is interested in you that will become apparent in his body or, more precisely, his body language.
Has the guy you're interested in ever touched you? Have you noticed that sometimes when he's talking with you that he will gently touch your arm or even poke you, as if joking? Have you ever felt him touch your back when he holds a door open for you? Is it as if he has a need to touch you when you're near? All of these are a good sign that he is attracted to you. He feels a connection with you and although he might not be able to hug you or kiss you at this moment in time, touching you is a non-verbal show of affection that is safe for him to use to express his desire for you.
While there are certain cultures and families that are more accepting of touching than others, a man's touch never lies. If he reaches out and touches you when you are near it very well could be that he is attracted to you and he feels comfortable with you. Of course, if you notice that he touches everybody then this could be his nature or how he was brought up. Either way, this is a good sign and you should reciprocate and touch him from time to time to build rapport and intimacy.
How a man stands can tell you a lot about how he feels about a woman. While this might sound crazy or you might not have ever thought of this, how a man stand can tell you a lot about how he feels about you. If his feet point towards you then there is a good chance that he is attracted to you. If he stands with his chest facing you then he is open with you and is attracted to you. On the other hand, if he doesn't directly face you or his toes are pointing away from you then there might be a problem.
Now, there are men who might not face you directly when talking to you. It could be that the man that you are attracted to was hurt in a past relationship so he's a little hesitant to be completely open at first. It's also a little difficult to always face someone when you're talking if you're sitting on a couch or at a bar. It's also awkward to not face someone when you're eating dinner with them and they're directly across the table from you. Use your own judgement and test it out sometime when he has the option of turning away or facing you directly. If he faces you directly with his feet pointing towards you then you know that there's a very good chance that he's attracted to you.
Look at his eyes the next time you talk in person. Do his eyes sparkle and does he look you in the eye? Something strange happens when a man is falling in love and when he is talking to a woman that he finds attractive his eyes will sparkle. He will smile a genuine smile that causes his eyes to almost smile too. This sign that he is attracted to you can't be controlled and can't be denied by any man so check out his eyes the next time you speak to him.
Try not to get concerned if he looks away or avoids eye contact for more than a few moments when you check to see if his eyes are sparkling. There are guys that are shy and sometimes awkwardly shy when they come face to face with a woman that they adore. It could be that he has some self-esteem issues or that he feels that you're way out of his league if he looks away. It's not that he doesn't find you attractive. The exact opposite is true. Let him become more sure of you and that you're not going to break his heart and you will see those sparkling eyes all the time.
All of these are great signs that the man that you desire is attracted to you. While men might be emotionally repressed at times, these tell-tale signs should tell you everything that you need to know. Men, in general, are poor at expressing their emotions or even recognizing them sometimes. This is why their body does it for them without them even knowing. Let your relationship move forward without spoken words for the moment and be glad that you know that he is attracted to you. There will come a day when he will be able to tell you how awesome he thinks you are but until then read his body language and know that you're on the right path.
While it might easier if men would just come right out and tell you how they feel about you, where's the challenge in that? Dating and romance is a dance and even though you might feel like you're going crazy, this is the thrill of falling in love. Real men typically won't come right out and tell you that they're falling for you. Men are taught by society at a very young age that they should bury their feelings and keep their emotions inside. Although this might make things difficult for you, there are some signs that a guy is interested in you that will become apparent in his body or, more precisely, his body language.
Has the guy you're interested in ever touched you? Have you noticed that sometimes when he's talking with you that he will gently touch your arm or even poke you, as if joking? Have you ever felt him touch your back when he holds a door open for you? Is it as if he has a need to touch you when you're near? All of these are a good sign that he is attracted to you. He feels a connection with you and although he might not be able to hug you or kiss you at this moment in time, touching you is a non-verbal show of affection that is safe for him to use to express his desire for you.
While there are certain cultures and families that are more accepting of touching than others, a man's touch never lies. If he reaches out and touches you when you are near it very well could be that he is attracted to you and he feels comfortable with you. Of course, if you notice that he touches everybody then this could be his nature or how he was brought up. Either way, this is a good sign and you should reciprocate and touch him from time to time to build rapport and intimacy.
How a man stands can tell you a lot about how he feels about a woman. While this might sound crazy or you might not have ever thought of this, how a man stand can tell you a lot about how he feels about you. If his feet point towards you then there is a good chance that he is attracted to you. If he stands with his chest facing you then he is open with you and is attracted to you. On the other hand, if he doesn't directly face you or his toes are pointing away from you then there might be a problem.
Now, there are men who might not face you directly when talking to you. It could be that the man that you are attracted to was hurt in a past relationship so he's a little hesitant to be completely open at first. It's also a little difficult to always face someone when you're talking if you're sitting on a couch or at a bar. It's also awkward to not face someone when you're eating dinner with them and they're directly across the table from you. Use your own judgement and test it out sometime when he has the option of turning away or facing you directly. If he faces you directly with his feet pointing towards you then you know that there's a very good chance that he's attracted to you.
Look at his eyes the next time you talk in person. Do his eyes sparkle and does he look you in the eye? Something strange happens when a man is falling in love and when he is talking to a woman that he finds attractive his eyes will sparkle. He will smile a genuine smile that causes his eyes to almost smile too. This sign that he is attracted to you can't be controlled and can't be denied by any man so check out his eyes the next time you speak to him.
Try not to get concerned if he looks away or avoids eye contact for more than a few moments when you check to see if his eyes are sparkling. There are guys that are shy and sometimes awkwardly shy when they come face to face with a woman that they adore. It could be that he has some self-esteem issues or that he feels that you're way out of his league if he looks away. It's not that he doesn't find you attractive. The exact opposite is true. Let him become more sure of you and that you're not going to break his heart and you will see those sparkling eyes all the time.
All of these are great signs that the man that you desire is attracted to you. While men might be emotionally repressed at times, these tell-tale signs should tell you everything that you need to know. Men, in general, are poor at expressing their emotions or even recognizing them sometimes. This is why their body does it for them without them even knowing. Let your relationship move forward without spoken words for the moment and be glad that you know that he is attracted to you. There will come a day when he will be able to tell you how awesome he thinks you are but until then read his body language and know that you're on the right path.
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