Do you think you know what women look for in a man? Has your experience or research shown you what you think most women look for in a guy but still you're single or not able to date the kind of women you desire? What a woman really wants or looks for in a guy is a bit elusive. Most women will also tell you one thing and exhibit preferences in real life. This makes things even more confusing for most men. Let's take a look at what most guys think that women look for in a guy and what the truth is.
You have probably been told that many women are attracted to a guy with money. Money can provide security and buy them things as well as provide experiences that make life exciting. Many guys hang their head and will tell you that unless you are wealthy that you don't have a chance with an attractive woman. They will sometimes even put off dating until they're rich because they believe this myth that beautiful women only date guys who are rich. When they don't make their fortune they resign themselves to dating or marrying a girl that is more obtainable or even below their expectations and they live out their life with regret.
The truth is that there are women that chase guys with money. These women are gold diggers. This shouldn't come as a great surprise. Of course, this doesn't mean that all women are gold diggers. Most women will tell you that a guy who is wealthy is actually a turn off if he feels that he can buy her affection. The majority of women will reject a guy that comes on too strong or who is accustomed to dating gold diggers. So, money isn't necessary to date a beautiful woman and if you are wealthy, let that be a little secret that you reveal once you know that she's into you.
Well, if women don't look for riches in a mate then they surely must judge guys based upon looks. This is how most guys initially become attracted to women so the same must be true for most women, right? Women look for the most handsome or the guy with the biggest muscles since this denotes strength and virility, right? Women who are in shape tend to date guys that work out. Famous models are always seen with guys that look like models and movie stars date their co-stars. This is what we are told in the media. It is what we see every day so it must be true, right?
This thought or myth that beautiful women only date guys that are good looking or physically fit comes from how men think. Men are visual in nature and we judge women by how they look. Women aren't wired this way. Women look beyond physical appearance. Often models, actresses and people who work out a lot wind up with other models, actors and muscular guys because they spend a lot of time in the same places and in the same circles. These guys also have the confidence and time to create a connection with these women and you will be surprised to find that these beautiful women aren't as judgmental as you might think. Sure, you should be tidy looking and free from offensive odors but physical appearance isn't nearly as important to a woman as most guys think.
It surely must be how nice a guy is that most women find attractive, you must think. This is what most women will tell you when you ask them what they're looking for in a guy or what they find attractive in a man. If you are simply good enough to her and spend your time helping little old ladies across the street then you can surely make the most beautiful woman feel attracted to you, right? This is what women say they want in a man all the time so it must be true.
The truth is that it's often the nice guys that become friends of beautiful women. It's rare that they fall in love with a truly nice guy or date nice guys. Being a nice guy should be something that she discovers about you later during the dating process. It's also not true that women like bad boys or men that are rude or obnoxious, as many guys think. Being nice should be a character trait that you reserve for all people who are nice to you. Going out of your way to be nice to a girl to appear attractive isn't genuine.
What a woman needs to feel in order to be attracted to a guy and eventually fall in love with him is more complicated. A woman needs to feel secure and protected when she's with a man. She needs to feel safe with him. She needs to feel like she has known him all her life and she needs to feel comfortable enough to talk with him about anything and everything. She needs to feel like he is genuinely interested in her without any hidden motives and she wants to feel that he is being completely transparent with him. For you, as a guy, this means being yourself. While that might sound a little boring, being yourself in a world of game players and liars can take more strength than most men are capable of. Stand out and be yourself and you might find that you are a breath of fresh air to that beautiful girl that you're hoping to spend time with.
You have probably been told that many women are attracted to a guy with money. Money can provide security and buy them things as well as provide experiences that make life exciting. Many guys hang their head and will tell you that unless you are wealthy that you don't have a chance with an attractive woman. They will sometimes even put off dating until they're rich because they believe this myth that beautiful women only date guys who are rich. When they don't make their fortune they resign themselves to dating or marrying a girl that is more obtainable or even below their expectations and they live out their life with regret.
The truth is that there are women that chase guys with money. These women are gold diggers. This shouldn't come as a great surprise. Of course, this doesn't mean that all women are gold diggers. Most women will tell you that a guy who is wealthy is actually a turn off if he feels that he can buy her affection. The majority of women will reject a guy that comes on too strong or who is accustomed to dating gold diggers. So, money isn't necessary to date a beautiful woman and if you are wealthy, let that be a little secret that you reveal once you know that she's into you.
Well, if women don't look for riches in a mate then they surely must judge guys based upon looks. This is how most guys initially become attracted to women so the same must be true for most women, right? Women look for the most handsome or the guy with the biggest muscles since this denotes strength and virility, right? Women who are in shape tend to date guys that work out. Famous models are always seen with guys that look like models and movie stars date their co-stars. This is what we are told in the media. It is what we see every day so it must be true, right?
This thought or myth that beautiful women only date guys that are good looking or physically fit comes from how men think. Men are visual in nature and we judge women by how they look. Women aren't wired this way. Women look beyond physical appearance. Often models, actresses and people who work out a lot wind up with other models, actors and muscular guys because they spend a lot of time in the same places and in the same circles. These guys also have the confidence and time to create a connection with these women and you will be surprised to find that these beautiful women aren't as judgmental as you might think. Sure, you should be tidy looking and free from offensive odors but physical appearance isn't nearly as important to a woman as most guys think.
It surely must be how nice a guy is that most women find attractive, you must think. This is what most women will tell you when you ask them what they're looking for in a guy or what they find attractive in a man. If you are simply good enough to her and spend your time helping little old ladies across the street then you can surely make the most beautiful woman feel attracted to you, right? This is what women say they want in a man all the time so it must be true.
The truth is that it's often the nice guys that become friends of beautiful women. It's rare that they fall in love with a truly nice guy or date nice guys. Being a nice guy should be something that she discovers about you later during the dating process. It's also not true that women like bad boys or men that are rude or obnoxious, as many guys think. Being nice should be a character trait that you reserve for all people who are nice to you. Going out of your way to be nice to a girl to appear attractive isn't genuine.
What a woman needs to feel in order to be attracted to a guy and eventually fall in love with him is more complicated. A woman needs to feel secure and protected when she's with a man. She needs to feel safe with him. She needs to feel like she has known him all her life and she needs to feel comfortable enough to talk with him about anything and everything. She needs to feel like he is genuinely interested in her without any hidden motives and she wants to feel that he is being completely transparent with him. For you, as a guy, this means being yourself. While that might sound a little boring, being yourself in a world of game players and liars can take more strength than most men are capable of. Stand out and be yourself and you might find that you are a breath of fresh air to that beautiful girl that you're hoping to spend time with.
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