Wanting to get back together with your ex girlfriend or your wife is a simple issue of mind over matter. You will find that your attitude has more to do with your success in your relationship with the woman of your dreams than anything else. While a woman might hear your words fine, she will judge you by your actions. You goal should be to show her with your actions that you are strong, fun to be around and the best man for her. You are confident and you need to instill a feeling of security in her when she is with you.
Most guys make the mistake of falling apart when their girlfriend or wife leaves them. Chances are that she was thinking about breaking up with you for some time before she had the courage to actually end the relationship. Perhaps you gave her a reason to leave. The reason probably wasn't what she told you it was. The reason that she left has more to do with a lack of respect for you as a man than anything she told you before she left you. It's your job now to show her that you're a man. This means no crying, begging or pleading for a second chance. This means that you can not tell her that you love her until she tells you that she loves you first. This means no contacting her or annoying her with requests to talk or see each other until you have your life straightened out and you are strong again.
You might cherish hearing her voice or seeing her face but there comes a time when the best thing that you can do is to walk away. Having an attitude that you are unwilling to tolerate bad behavior and ending a conversation or relationship when you are not receiving respect is important to a man. This means that if you do see her or talk with her and she is anything other than kind and respectful towards you, your response will be to walk away. This should be your attitude figuratively and literally. If she raises her voice, makes a face that tells you that she doesn't respect you or if she acts disrespectful in any way, you turn away from her and walk away after telling her that you're not going to put up with this type of behavior. You might worry that she won't care or that she will become more angry but you will find that the opposite is true. She might act like she doesn't care but instinctively, she will begin to gain some respect for you. She very well might begin to pursue you although she probably won't understand why and she might never apologize but the end result is our goal. That is, having your girlfriend or wife begin to respect you and admire you again.
Have control over your emotions. No matter what, never let her see you upset. Never let her see you cry or let her even hear that you are depressed or sad about the breakup. You have a new life and you have many things to be happy about. Your entire persona is all about being happy and living life to the fullest. People are attracted to other people who are happy. Force yourself to be happy. Do things every day that make you feel good and optimistic about life. If you are having a bad day, let everyone believe that everything is alright. If you are having a difficult moment, take five minutes to collect your thoughts and tell yourself that this is your life and you choose to be happy. Happiness is attractive to women.
Regaining control in your relationship is very important. Many women will test you or attempt to control everything in the relationship. Was your ex this way when you were together? Does she still try to control things in your life by making suggestions or injecting her thoughts on all aspects of your life? This is why a woman will ask a man to make a decision about what restaurant they should go to and then get upset when he says that he doesn't care. She wants you to take control and make the decisions and she will lose respect for you when you give up that control. To remedy this situation, don't allow her to make decisions in your life. If she tries to decide where you will meet, make alternate plans simply to overturn her decision and take control of the situation. Don't worry if she becomes upset or angry. Taking control back from a woman can be frustrating for her but it is what she needs. She will rebel but her temper tantrum will pass quickly and eventually you will see that she respects you more and becomes more submissive to your suggestions. She will look to you for guidance and this is the path to getting back together with her.
Confidence is a very important trait in a man. Women love a man that is confident and sure of himself. This confidence can be seen in his body language, his tone of voice as well as the look on his face. A real man doesn't worry about anything and he knows that things will work out for him. If you were formerly worried about everything, scared that bad things were going to happen or if you lacked the self-confidence to do even the simplest things, it's time to change that. Do whatever you need to do to build your self-confidence. Positive self-talk and telling yourself that you are strong, confident and awesome are a step in the right direction. When she sees you next, you want her to notice that you don't have a care in the world. You're free and confident about your place in this world. You're not worried about getting her back. Even if she is with another man, you know inside that it isn't going to last. She will regret her decision to leave you and she will be coming back to you because you're confident.
Relationships can be difficult at times. Loving a woman often gives them a lot of power in a relationship. It's sad when a woman takes advantage of that power and your kindness but you can take that power back and also restore the love that she once had for you. It's strange but women want what they feel they can not have. By following the suggestions here she will pick up on the fact that you are not the same man that she broke up with and you're not willing to grovel or beg for her to come back to her. This will all be highly attractive to her and before you know it she will become curious about what is going on in your life. The sooner you rebuild your life and become the man, the sooner she will come back to you. Be strong, be a man and get your ex girlfriend or wife back before some other guy takes her away from you completely.
Most guys make the mistake of falling apart when their girlfriend or wife leaves them. Chances are that she was thinking about breaking up with you for some time before she had the courage to actually end the relationship. Perhaps you gave her a reason to leave. The reason probably wasn't what she told you it was. The reason that she left has more to do with a lack of respect for you as a man than anything she told you before she left you. It's your job now to show her that you're a man. This means no crying, begging or pleading for a second chance. This means that you can not tell her that you love her until she tells you that she loves you first. This means no contacting her or annoying her with requests to talk or see each other until you have your life straightened out and you are strong again.
You might cherish hearing her voice or seeing her face but there comes a time when the best thing that you can do is to walk away. Having an attitude that you are unwilling to tolerate bad behavior and ending a conversation or relationship when you are not receiving respect is important to a man. This means that if you do see her or talk with her and she is anything other than kind and respectful towards you, your response will be to walk away. This should be your attitude figuratively and literally. If she raises her voice, makes a face that tells you that she doesn't respect you or if she acts disrespectful in any way, you turn away from her and walk away after telling her that you're not going to put up with this type of behavior. You might worry that she won't care or that she will become more angry but you will find that the opposite is true. She might act like she doesn't care but instinctively, she will begin to gain some respect for you. She very well might begin to pursue you although she probably won't understand why and she might never apologize but the end result is our goal. That is, having your girlfriend or wife begin to respect you and admire you again.
Have control over your emotions. No matter what, never let her see you upset. Never let her see you cry or let her even hear that you are depressed or sad about the breakup. You have a new life and you have many things to be happy about. Your entire persona is all about being happy and living life to the fullest. People are attracted to other people who are happy. Force yourself to be happy. Do things every day that make you feel good and optimistic about life. If you are having a bad day, let everyone believe that everything is alright. If you are having a difficult moment, take five minutes to collect your thoughts and tell yourself that this is your life and you choose to be happy. Happiness is attractive to women.
Regaining control in your relationship is very important. Many women will test you or attempt to control everything in the relationship. Was your ex this way when you were together? Does she still try to control things in your life by making suggestions or injecting her thoughts on all aspects of your life? This is why a woman will ask a man to make a decision about what restaurant they should go to and then get upset when he says that he doesn't care. She wants you to take control and make the decisions and she will lose respect for you when you give up that control. To remedy this situation, don't allow her to make decisions in your life. If she tries to decide where you will meet, make alternate plans simply to overturn her decision and take control of the situation. Don't worry if she becomes upset or angry. Taking control back from a woman can be frustrating for her but it is what she needs. She will rebel but her temper tantrum will pass quickly and eventually you will see that she respects you more and becomes more submissive to your suggestions. She will look to you for guidance and this is the path to getting back together with her.
Confidence is a very important trait in a man. Women love a man that is confident and sure of himself. This confidence can be seen in his body language, his tone of voice as well as the look on his face. A real man doesn't worry about anything and he knows that things will work out for him. If you were formerly worried about everything, scared that bad things were going to happen or if you lacked the self-confidence to do even the simplest things, it's time to change that. Do whatever you need to do to build your self-confidence. Positive self-talk and telling yourself that you are strong, confident and awesome are a step in the right direction. When she sees you next, you want her to notice that you don't have a care in the world. You're free and confident about your place in this world. You're not worried about getting her back. Even if she is with another man, you know inside that it isn't going to last. She will regret her decision to leave you and she will be coming back to you because you're confident.
Relationships can be difficult at times. Loving a woman often gives them a lot of power in a relationship. It's sad when a woman takes advantage of that power and your kindness but you can take that power back and also restore the love that she once had for you. It's strange but women want what they feel they can not have. By following the suggestions here she will pick up on the fact that you are not the same man that she broke up with and you're not willing to grovel or beg for her to come back to her. This will all be highly attractive to her and before you know it she will become curious about what is going on in your life. The sooner you rebuild your life and become the man, the sooner she will come back to you. Be strong, be a man and get your ex girlfriend or wife back before some other guy takes her away from you completely.
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