Discover The Art Of Flirting

By Brett Vaughan


Flirting is a skill that some people are naturally good at while others have to practice and work at it in order to perfect the skill. With the art of flirting, one has to overcome the conditioning that creates the assumption that strangers are dangerous; in fact, it is said that they beauty of flirting within the anonymity of the random person one chooses to flirt with especially if they are strangers.

For people who are not comfortable with the idea of approaching people confidently, one has to practice this art by trying as much as possible to approach random people and try to make a conversation. This way, one prepares themselves for meeting the right person because there is no damage done when one makes the fool out of themselves since one may probably never meet this person again.

As they say, practice makes perfect and therefore, one gets better at this art the more they practice it as they get to learn their best skills and how to apply them and how to take rejections without damaging their ego. After becoming more comfortable with flirting with strangers it may be the right time to move to semi-strangers just to gather enough confidence.

At times, some people may seem intimidating which makes is hard to approach them but the key is usually being confident as the person may probably be waiting for you to approach them. When one is past exchanging phone numbers and saliva, this is usually less intimidating and rejection even becomes less embarrassing as one has gained enough confidence to know that there are other people who would not mind going out with them.

Flirting starts with the eyes, and then the mouth and a little bit of shyness and coyness especially for women. This is different for men and women as women are allowed to act shy while men on the other hand are expected to be confident. Over time, this art has evolved as men are not the only ones who do the approaching as women are now approaching men and even asking for their numbers.

There usually is no right place for this as it can be done anywhere, all one needs to know is be able to take hints and read signals. For instance, a blink, a smile, or shyness may be a signal hinting to you that someone want you to approach them. However, being over flirtatious may be off-putting as one may seem easy and creepy especially if it is a lady does it.

Flirting is usually a progressive as it starts with the eyes, moves to the smile, then the body language and later the approaching. Being able to ignite a conversation is key as it avoids the awkward moments when people are just are each others with no words. As the conversation continues, one can try to break the touch barrier but still make it short and sweet.

There are certain rules of the game that one should consider for a successful flirting moment and still make it interesting. As hard as it might be, leaving when the conversation gets juicy is the best move to make if you are anticipating for a second date. This is because you will leave them at a good note and at a suspense whereby they would like to meet again and continue from where you left.




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