Being Part Of The Male Wives Club Is Actually Fun

By Marci Glover


Society has changed so much in the past few years from men dominating the working world to a very quick change in the working system. Now women, through the help of women's rights groups, are filling the roles that men once dominated. Now the roles are slowly changing, men are staying at home with the kids and forming the likes of a male wives club in order to stay socially active.

Women will know that if not for such meetings taking place they would very quickly go insane! Having the company of your kids is an amazing thing, something that a lot of parents are not fortunate enough to experience. However, as amazing as it is, this can become very daunting and lonely.

The mind deadening effect of inadequate intellectual chat having to look at, hours of, children's movies that on its own is hard to watch. All these effects add up, quickly the mind becomes frozen, monotony sets in and all seems discouraging. Soon the individual is seeking alternative ways to kindle their intellectual needs and mind.

This is where the club comes in. Stay at home dads will get together to fill the gap and make use of the interaction as not to lose their minds. Some may argue that a bunch of men getting together with kids will only lead to the kids being neglected, this is not always true. All people need intellectual stimulation and all people need people and socialization.

Often the stay at home parent is neglected and also envied. People think that it is an easy job to watch after the kids. They think that it is great to have all the time of the day to do what you want when you want. Fact of the matter is that kids are always on the go, even when the child is sleeping you will be preparing for when they wake up.

There is always something to keep you busy but not always something to keep you entertained and fulfilled. Depending on how old is or perhaps multiple children are, there are things like bottles to prepare, food, change of clothes and baths to run and hair to wash. This is not an exercise for wimps, there is very little self time involved.

When the men get together on a social level it frees their minds from the day to day stress, just as when women get together. They don't necessarily sit around and have tea parties as some may imagine. They do, however, talk and share about the day to do stresses. What their child is going through and get advice how to deal with it.

At the end of the day it doesn't matter how you see the man or need of such a social club. The fact remains, these meetings are crucial to the social development of the man involved as well as the social development of the child. Children learn from how you interact with other people, they adopt the method to how they interact with other children and people too.




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