Why Is Female Masturbation Looked Down On In The United States

By Zara Panton


When it comes to knowing how to pleasure themselves and masturbate, women can have just as much fun and enjoyment doing it as a man does. You may think that women don't masturbate, but you would be very wrong! It is actually something that is great for women to do so they get to know what turns them on so they can better be able to tell their partner when they are going to make love with them.

In the 16th, 17th, and 18th centuries Western Europe went through a time known as the Reformation. This was when parts of the Catholic church fragmented into many different parts as people realized that the Roman church was very corrupt and heretical. Out of these many sects a few became quite radical in their interpretation of human sexuality and called themselves Puritans. Their view was that sex was strictly between and married man and woman and only to be performed for the sake of birthing a child.

Why Do Women Have To Masturbate? Women masturbate because that is probably the only way for many of them to explore themselves and discover parts of their bodies their men never reach during foreplay or sex. Masturbation helps women explore their pleasure points in order to excite themselves in a sexual way. Females also masturbate to give themselves the sexual and erotic pleasure their men and sex partners fail to give them during sex.

With that view firmly established in the American psyche it is easy to see how masturbation and especially female masturbation is something considered indecent and gross. So you have very repressed people who naturally have urges to masturbate but have been raised to see those natural urges as bad, improper, and even evil.What you should understand is that these are simply someones beliefs and have nothing to do with reality. The reality is that humans are sexual creatures (how else do you think you are here reading this?) and the urge to masturbate is as natural as the urge to eat and sleep.

Men need to master the women erogenous zones because that will make their partners adore them and be ready to have sex whenever they like. This is because sex with these women will be a give and take situation; the woman gives and receives pleasure, just like the man. Otherwise, the women will continue to masturbate even after having sex with their men.Graphs are not very exciting concepts but nevertheless they can be useful. Imagine the male orgasm graph which looks a little like a vertical phallic symbol. Then imagine the female orgasm graph which looks like the outline of a woman's vulva.

That's another thing to remember. Mutual masturbation can be very sexy! Plus, a lot of guys love to watch their woman masturbate and you wouldn't believe how much it can turn a guy on to watch her go for it and pleasure herself! Plus, if he watches, he is bound to learn what makes you get turned on and that can only make your own love making sessions even better!

Bend your legs and spread them apart. You can try some erotica at this moment. Try reading an erotic book, watching an adult film or looking at some arousing pictures. These will get you in the mood for more pleasure.The purpose of masturbation is to find out all the pleasure centers in your body. The easiest way to do this is to run your hands all over your body. Try massaging your breasts, circling your navel or touching your inner thighs and the crevice between your thighs and your legs.

All in all, masturbating can bring a woman pleasure and can even bring excitement into a relationship. For instance, if you are away from your lover but you both have access to a webcam, it can be super exciting for you to masturbate while he watches! That can get you both going so when you are able to get back together you are in for a hot time in the ole bedroom for sure!

I also concluded that the impression that women respond similarly to men must be a result of sexual fantasies. Since talking to other women, I now know that women interpret emotional sensations as if they represent true sexual arousal and orgasm.When women like myself ask about lack of orgasm, experts often refer to inhibition or to psychological trauma that might have caused a woman to view sex as 'dirty' or as a 'violation' rather than a loving act involving mutual sexual pleasure. I challenge this suggestion - it seems more likely that the reverse is likely to be true.Women who masturbate to orgasm are LESS sexually inhibited than other women. Not only do they appreciate eroticism enough to enjoy their own sexual fantasies when alone. They are also more willing to engage on a variety of sexual activities with a partner to explore how they might enjoy their own sexual arousal during sex.




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