Are you torn between following your heart and taking the advice of those close to you when it comes to getting back together with your ex? On one hand, your heart tells you that you still love your ex. On the other hand, your friends and family are urging you to leave your ex in the past and begin dating someone else. You're torn and confused over what to do. What's the right decision for you?
Even though many people around you are telling you to move on, this is still your life and your decision. While you might love your family and friends and respect their opinion, you don't have to do what they suggest. You can listen to them and thank them for the advice but it's almost impossible to ignore your own heart. Your heart rules you and it is where your dreams and desires are born. Your heart is the origin of your future and your heart is telling you that you still love your ex.
Those close to you might be very influential upon your decision. They care about you. They've seen the pain in your eyes and heard your cries for the pain in your heart to stop. It's only natural that they suggest that you move on and find someone new. This is popular advice given in such a situation and it is a temporary fix for the pain that you're feeling. They might not understand the connection that you feel with your ex and the love that you have for them. Nobody else can feel exactly what you feel right now.
Keep in mind that when you finally do make that decision to try to get back together with your ex you might want to keep it to yourself. If you're not going to get support from your friends or family then it's often better to keep your decision to yourself. It's sometimes better to have no support than to have people around you reminding you of the pain that you went through and all the reasons why your ex wasn't the right one for you.
Covet that dream of being reunited with your ex. Keep it safe from those that might want to destroy it. Cherish it like a fragile gift. Know in the depths of your soul that it can come true and that it is not impossible. Everything is possible in this world and having the one person who loved you so passionately fall in love with you again isn't out of the realm of possibility. There are people who are much worse off than you who were able to reunite with their soul mates. You probably have evidence of this in your own life. Have you seen people with big relationship problems get back together when everyone said that it wouldn't happen? Remember that and know in your heart that this is possible.
Allow yourself a little time every day to think about your ex falling in love with you again. Dream about what it will be like to have your ex in your life again in the exact way that you want. Dream up little vignettes of your life with your ex. Imagine what it will be like to hear your ex tell you that they love. When will that first kiss occur? Can you feel the warmth of their embrace as you close your eyes? Dream of what you want things to be like and don't allow doubt to creep in and ruin these thoughts. This is your time to create your future in your mind.
This is your life and these are your dreams. Let yourself go and create the kind of happy life that you want each and every night. You deserve to be happy and you deserve to be loved by who you desire in the exact way that you dream of. You have a choice in life. You can be happy or you can be miserable. Your dreams and thoughts dictate what you get in life. Let your thoughts, dreams and your attitude be positive and things will begin to change. This means every aspect of your life including who you love and how they love you. Getting back together isn't impossible and it all begins in your heart and your dreams. Don't let anyone destroy either of them.
Even though many people around you are telling you to move on, this is still your life and your decision. While you might love your family and friends and respect their opinion, you don't have to do what they suggest. You can listen to them and thank them for the advice but it's almost impossible to ignore your own heart. Your heart rules you and it is where your dreams and desires are born. Your heart is the origin of your future and your heart is telling you that you still love your ex.
Those close to you might be very influential upon your decision. They care about you. They've seen the pain in your eyes and heard your cries for the pain in your heart to stop. It's only natural that they suggest that you move on and find someone new. This is popular advice given in such a situation and it is a temporary fix for the pain that you're feeling. They might not understand the connection that you feel with your ex and the love that you have for them. Nobody else can feel exactly what you feel right now.
Keep in mind that when you finally do make that decision to try to get back together with your ex you might want to keep it to yourself. If you're not going to get support from your friends or family then it's often better to keep your decision to yourself. It's sometimes better to have no support than to have people around you reminding you of the pain that you went through and all the reasons why your ex wasn't the right one for you.
Covet that dream of being reunited with your ex. Keep it safe from those that might want to destroy it. Cherish it like a fragile gift. Know in the depths of your soul that it can come true and that it is not impossible. Everything is possible in this world and having the one person who loved you so passionately fall in love with you again isn't out of the realm of possibility. There are people who are much worse off than you who were able to reunite with their soul mates. You probably have evidence of this in your own life. Have you seen people with big relationship problems get back together when everyone said that it wouldn't happen? Remember that and know in your heart that this is possible.
Allow yourself a little time every day to think about your ex falling in love with you again. Dream about what it will be like to have your ex in your life again in the exact way that you want. Dream up little vignettes of your life with your ex. Imagine what it will be like to hear your ex tell you that they love. When will that first kiss occur? Can you feel the warmth of their embrace as you close your eyes? Dream of what you want things to be like and don't allow doubt to creep in and ruin these thoughts. This is your time to create your future in your mind.
This is your life and these are your dreams. Let yourself go and create the kind of happy life that you want each and every night. You deserve to be happy and you deserve to be loved by who you desire in the exact way that you dream of. You have a choice in life. You can be happy or you can be miserable. Your dreams and thoughts dictate what you get in life. Let your thoughts, dreams and your attitude be positive and things will begin to change. This means every aspect of your life including who you love and how they love you. Getting back together isn't impossible and it all begins in your heart and your dreams. Don't let anyone destroy either of them.
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