How To Overcome The Dreaded Awkward Silence And Impress The Girl

By J. Ryu


You manage to finally approach a pretty girl. Using your incredible communication skills, you start up a conversation without getting slapped or laughed away. The conversation with this cutie is going excellent. She's smiling, giggling, clearly becoming more interested and more intrigued as the conversation rolls along.

Then you blank out... Run out of things to say. Try as you might, you cannot think of something funny, interesting, charming, or dear God, anything to continue the conversation. Her interest in you is falling faster than your ego and ambitions for the night. She looks at you expectantly, then disinterestedly, then disappointedly, then finally dismissively. Game over.

So what exactly can you do to pull the conversational free fall back into the high flying conversation it was? You go into your toolbox. Your interaction skills toolbox. You are about to learn one of the absolute best conversation-saving tools available. This is a guaranteed way to spare any interaction with a woman, PLUS it's so flawlessly constructed, that it quickly allows for sexual innuendo to obtain her mind "in the right spot" while still masquerading as pure, non-desperate and fun banter.

It's a little game called "SMK" and it will be your wingman. If you utilize this new wingman of yours, SMK, any interaction about in free fall will instantly be turned around. You will leap beyond the average dork that approaches her with the same old stupid pickup lines and dull conversations.

When you start to run out of things to say, just as you can feel that her attraction is about to start dipping down... You turn to her, and you say: "Hey, let's play a game real quick." Watch as her eyes sparkle with curiosity. This is a departure from the normal night-time drivel she's used to dealing with. She will almost certainly invite you to proceed.

Onwards the game. Start to glance around the area, examining the various other men you see and start to point them out one by one, and ask her "ok, so would you sleep with, marry, or kill him?" She'll laugh at first. Then she'll look over at your target and size him up. Choose different kinds of men representing the spectrum of character types and stereotypes. A jock. A gangster. A nerd. A handsome guy. A musician. A business man.

This has several different purposes

1) You will get an insight into what she values in a guy, and how she works. She will provide really direct hints to how she wants to be seduced. If she says "sleep with" to the artist, "marry" to the nerdy man, and "kill" to the man in a suit ... then you can guess that she's got a wild side, she doesn't like guys with a lot of structure, and she's a secret nerd. Think about that ... she'll pretty much be providing you a HUGE tip into ways to seduce her.

2) You can continue bantering and teasing her. This is so crucial to the first phase of the interaction . Keep conversation light, non-needy, (teasing her playfully) and fun! Make funny and crazy projections about who you suspect she'd sleep with, marry and kill. It will be incredibly simple as she's varying between giggling at her own qwerky tastes, cringing at the dopey men, and changing to her ooh... voice with the guys that she finds sexy.

3) And turned on she will be. Remember, she's bringing the idea "who do I wish to sleep with?" into her mind, and it was all an experience that was generated by and shared with you ... and just you.

4) Finally...she will see that you are 100% confident in your sexuality and your ability to attract women. You can confidently discuss the theoretical thought of her sleeping with other men, and that doesn't threaten you. 99.99% of dudes would be terrified to even suggest that she even look at another guy when he's talking to her! Your confidence here will be very, very sexy to women.

After playing this game for even a couple of minutes, she will be extremely turned on by your imagination, your wit, and your confidence ... This sets you up COMPLETELY to go into the next phase of interaction, which develops upon the sexual energy in this game, especially if you have actually been correctly blending in the right "sexual triggers" that all ladies have.




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