Did you know that dating younger women very well might be easier than dating women closer to your age? You have a choice. You can believe the propaganda from those that say that you need a more mature woman and that a younger woman will only break your heart. More and more older men are choosing to date exclusively women ten or even twenty years younger. Your journey might have high points and low points but if you're tired of what you're finding when you date within the age range that you are accustomed to, the benefits far outweigh the risk.
Of course, people will tell you that a younger woman simply isn't mature enough to have a stable relationship. This perception comes from the fact that a younger woman thinks and makes decisions differently than an older woman. You will find that along with the passion in your relationship, someone younger often makes decisions based upon emotions or how she feels. All she knows is how she feels and decisions often aren't based upon what might make sense. There's no calculating and often there isn't a long term plan. You need to understand this when you get in a relationship with a younger woman or you're going to drive yourself crazy. Remember that it's nothing person and it is simply how they are wired.
Let's just say that you notice that she's becoming a little distant or you feel like she's avoiding you. It could be one of many things. It could be that an old boyfriend is hitting on her or that there's a guy at work that is asking her out. It could be that she's feeling strange about the age gap. It really doesn't matter. What does matter is how you react to this change. If you become clingy, jealous or you try to force her to tell you what is wrong then you will have blown it. These emotions are unacceptable. Instead, continue to be that awesome guy that she enjoys spending time with. Be strong and confident. Focus on making her feel good and remind her of fun times you had in the past complete with how it felt when you were together. Dream with her and make plans for the future together doing something fun or romantic. Keep your head about you and avoid the temptation to act emotionally when you can feel her slipping away or having a change of heart.
While it is true that sometimes dating a younger woman can be like trying to put toothpaste back into the tube when things go sideways, it's also true that if you understand her you can help her to feel the way that she wants to feel. That is, you can make her feel safe, secure, loved, appreciated and mature. While younger women might be flighty at times and prone to suggestion from friends and family members, they are not quite as damaged as women your own age. As quickly as they might flake out on you they will also become attached to you just as quickly.
Guys her own age are the same way also. She probably already knows this from experience or she has friends who are constantly having to deal with a boyfriend who cheats or is interested in multiple women at the same time. With you, she has the best of both worlds and she trusts you. Instill that trust and help her to understand that there are going to be people who will try to break you up out of jealousy and you'll be fine. Help her to see that if someone really cared about her that they would be happy for her and support her and that one day those people will wish that they had a relationship as filled with love and happiness as the two of you have together.
Play your cards right, understand how her heart works and what she needs from a man and you'll be in good shape. Remain strong and confident and she will feel safe and protected when she's with you. She will realize that you're someone that she can trust and who is interested in her as a human being and that you're not like guys her own age.
Of course, people will tell you that a younger woman simply isn't mature enough to have a stable relationship. This perception comes from the fact that a younger woman thinks and makes decisions differently than an older woman. You will find that along with the passion in your relationship, someone younger often makes decisions based upon emotions or how she feels. All she knows is how she feels and decisions often aren't based upon what might make sense. There's no calculating and often there isn't a long term plan. You need to understand this when you get in a relationship with a younger woman or you're going to drive yourself crazy. Remember that it's nothing person and it is simply how they are wired.
Let's just say that you notice that she's becoming a little distant or you feel like she's avoiding you. It could be one of many things. It could be that an old boyfriend is hitting on her or that there's a guy at work that is asking her out. It could be that she's feeling strange about the age gap. It really doesn't matter. What does matter is how you react to this change. If you become clingy, jealous or you try to force her to tell you what is wrong then you will have blown it. These emotions are unacceptable. Instead, continue to be that awesome guy that she enjoys spending time with. Be strong and confident. Focus on making her feel good and remind her of fun times you had in the past complete with how it felt when you were together. Dream with her and make plans for the future together doing something fun or romantic. Keep your head about you and avoid the temptation to act emotionally when you can feel her slipping away or having a change of heart.
While it is true that sometimes dating a younger woman can be like trying to put toothpaste back into the tube when things go sideways, it's also true that if you understand her you can help her to feel the way that she wants to feel. That is, you can make her feel safe, secure, loved, appreciated and mature. While younger women might be flighty at times and prone to suggestion from friends and family members, they are not quite as damaged as women your own age. As quickly as they might flake out on you they will also become attached to you just as quickly.
Guys her own age are the same way also. She probably already knows this from experience or she has friends who are constantly having to deal with a boyfriend who cheats or is interested in multiple women at the same time. With you, she has the best of both worlds and she trusts you. Instill that trust and help her to understand that there are going to be people who will try to break you up out of jealousy and you'll be fine. Help her to see that if someone really cared about her that they would be happy for her and support her and that one day those people will wish that they had a relationship as filled with love and happiness as the two of you have together.
Play your cards right, understand how her heart works and what she needs from a man and you'll be in good shape. Remain strong and confident and she will feel safe and protected when she's with you. She will realize that you're someone that she can trust and who is interested in her as a human being and that you're not like guys her own age.
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